Building up the Oral Sex Method
To really get the full potential out of the Oral Sex Method, there’s one last concept you’ve got to understand and use; this is the concept of anticipation and build-up. When you use this idea correctly you can build up her arousal so that when it actually finally comes to having oral sex she’ll be so excited about it and ready for it that it will take you minimum effort for her to orgasm. Try teasing her first with brushes of the hand and passionate kisses. Take her on a romantic date to her favorite places and flirt with her all night long.
Erotic massage is also a great way to increase her arousal to previously unseen levels. There are several guides out there that can teach you all about sensual and erotic massage, and I highly recommend you check some of them out. The act of massage every inch of your woman’s skin has a deeply enticing effect on her and can even help to open up her mind to new possibilities. It has been proven to increase trust and intimacy between couples and can be a great opening act to long night of passion.
La Methode
This section has been saved for last for a very specific reason. That reason is that without all of the knowledge you’ve just gained from the previous sections, it would be utterly and completely useless to you.
No amount of direction or hidden secrets of the vagina will help you give your girl the pleasure she deserves if you’re not reading her signals and changing your actions based on them. Remember; you’re doing this for her, not you.
Part 1 of the Oral Sex Method encompasses anything that you physically do to your woman during oral sex. There are essentially three different methods of doing this and they can work in a lot of different ways. Within each method, you can vary speed, direction, intensity and pressure among other things. We’ll get to this shortly, but first, let’s focus on a crucial part of oral sex.
The Clitoris
The clitoris is located outside of the vagina, where her Labia Majora meet above her vaginal cavity. It is a collection of very sensitive nerve endings and can be used to give your woman an uncontrollable amount of pleasure if used in the right way.
The area itself is round and will extend out to varying sizes. Some women have a very small clitoris that can very difficult to find, while others can have a very large one that is hard to miss. It will also grow larger as your woman becomes more aroused, kind of like a penis. Whatever the size, though, it is center of pure enjoyment for all women.
If you have difficulty in finding it, simply do a google search and spend a little time looking around. Knowing where it is will be extremely important, so put in the effort.
If you find yourself engaging in oral sex before you’ve gotten a chance to do your homework, I highly recommend simply exploring her entire vagina with your tongue. Letting yourself wander around her labia and surrounding skin can be incredibly pleasing to your woman and I’m sure she deserves to have every inch of her pleasure zone cared for.
To find her clitoris, simply focus on the top of her vagina. You’ll be able to feel your way to something that feels like and upside down V that you can push up with your tongue. The old saying “little man in the boat” in very accurate, because that’s exactly what it feels like; there will be a protrusion sticking out from what would be the bow of the ship. That is the clitoris. Remember where it is because you’ll need to find it every time. Also, as she gets more and more into the oral sex, she may starts moving her hips with greater intensity, which will make keeping track of it very difficult. Just stay focused and remember that if her reactions seem to subside, then you’ve probably lost it. Go for another scavenger hunt while she relaxes and catches her breath before round two. Just in case, there’s a picture below.
Method 1
The first method is simply stimulating her clitoris with your tongue. There are a number of ways you can do this, and this is where the Oral Sex Method comes in. You’ve got to try out different ways of using your tongue to see what your woman likes.
Here are some examples of what you can do:
Move your tongue in a circular motion around it
Move your tongue in an up and down motion on it
Suck on it lightly
Flick your tongue from side to side
Lick right up from underneath it
Or a combination of the above
Take the time to experiment with every single one of these approaches. Also, try out different ones at different speeds, intensities and strengths to see which ones work best for your woman.
All of these combinations together give you over 100 different ways of giving her pleasure. Test different ones out. When you find one you get a good response or positive signal to, keep doing it.
Method 2
This involves using your tongue / mouth on her clit, while you penetrate her with your finger(s). Often this can be used as a transition from Pleasure Method 1. I recommend using the approach of anticipation that I mentioned earlier.
Introduce your finger very slowly and make her really appreciate it. In Pleasure Method 2 you can use all the same actions with your mouth as you did in Pleasure Method 1.
With your finger you can do the following:
Thrust in and out simulating penetration with your penis
Move it up and down inside her
Move it in a circular motion
Push it very deep inside her and reach to stimulate her G-Spot (a hard feeling lump at the back of the inside of her vagina). You may also want to experiment with introducing two or more fingers. As I’ve mentioned before, try out different speeds, intensities and strengths to see which one works best for your woman.
Method 3
This involves using your tongue and mouth to stimulate the whole of her vagina, not just her clitoris. This works great if you have a big tongue, but is still very effective if you don’t.
Try sticking your tongue as deep as you can into her vagina. Lick around and use any of the combinations described in Pleasure Method 1, except you’re now using them to stimulate the inside of her vagina. You may also want to experiment with putting some pressure on her clitoris with your face or nose. Again the same rules apply; try out different methods of pleasuring at different speeds, intensities and strengths to see which ones works best for your woman.
Using the methods effectively
Now you know all that you need to know to expertly pleasure your woman and master oral sex. Try everything from above out. Mix them up if you want. Try them with slight variations. Just keep testing and finding new ways to bring your woman to orgasm with your mouth. Never let a few failed methods get in the way of climbing back up on that horse and going again. What you gain from taking care of your woman is immeasurable and her gratitude will stay strong throughout your relationship.
That’s all I can teach you. Now it’s up to you to get into that bedroom and give your beautiful woman a night that she’ll never forget. Start with anticipation and move through the methods to bring her as many orgasms as she can handle!