Sensual Massage To Strengthen Relationships -Tease and tantalize her
Making love
Either before or after your partner has achieved orgasm, she may be open to penetrative sex. In all likelihood, she’ll be begging for it at this point.
Aside from pulling you on top of herself, she may wish to repay all of your hard work with oral sex, or even to use those personal lubricants with her hand. Whatever the specifics of how you join in on her orgasmic pleasure at this point aren’t important. The important part is that through sensual and erotic massage, you’ve met her physical and emotional needs and given her a very intimate experience that will make her long for more.
As you continue your lovemaking, remember that women have non-sexual parts of their bodies that are very sensitive. Caressing and kissing these areas can greatly enhance her orgasm. Pay attention to her ears, neck, back, arms and other places to find out what she likes. Do not just focus on her vagina, now that you’ve gotten there. Use her entire body to bring her pleasure.
Explore her breasts by sucking, licking, stroking, nibbling, and gently squeezing them. Although the nipples and areola are known to be sensitive, so are the undersides of her breasts just under the areola. Some women don’t feel a thing when their nipples are touched. But stroke or lick just under her areola and the nipples instantly harden. Be sure to use your fingers, tongue, lips, hand, and even the head of your penis to explore and stimulate her breasts.
Some women enjoy having their nipples pinched, bitten or flicked. However, this depends on your lady’s personality, mood, where she is in her menstrual cycle, as well as how many glasses of wine she’s had. There might be times when just the pads of your fingertips feel too rough. Other times, she might beg you to bite her nipples harder and harder. There’s really no way to tell what she’s going to be up for from one day to the next, so be sure to ask her what feels good.
Yet another fun and sensual experience is for both you and your partner to get all oiled up. As you can imagine, this is not the same this as rubbing massage oil into your palms. Here are some ways to give it a shot.
when wet
Two bodies covered in warm, slippery oil can have a surprisingly arousing effect on women. The wetness of it all can be highly erotic and trigger their most primal desires. Simply add oil and have fun!
With your partner lying on her back, take the excess massage oil and begin applying it generously all over her body. To create a sexier experience for her, drip and squirt the oil onto her exposed flesh, then sensually rub it over her. Any good massage oil will do for this as long as you make sure you warm it to at least room temperature or slightly higher.
Make sure you have a towel positioned below your bodies to capture any excess oil that drips down. Once things get going, there is bound to be some spillage.
Chapter summary
Make sure your partner is highly aroused and desiring sex before moving to the erotic massage. Take care to be in sync with her. There should be little need for verbal communication at this point. Listen to her body language and let her enjoy yours.
Erotic massage includes: massaging her breasts, playing with her nipples, massaging her inner thighs and brushing against her vagina.
Erotic massage ends with digital stimulation of your partner’s vagina and clitoris. After that is when you may decide to have sex.
Assignment
As long as you’ve kept up with this information and these assignments, you should be able to perform a full erotic massage on your partner. Bring your supplies together, craft the environment, choose a date and time without interruption and invite your partner to one of the best erotic experiences of her life.
Feeling nervous is normal. It will pass. Stay in sync with your partner and everything will be fine. Once you’ve finished, be sure to hold your partner close and tell her you love her.
Conclusion
Women want a man who can protect them and keep them safe from their negative emotions. Once you learn to do this, she will open herself up to you, mind, body and soul.
Women also crave intimacy and affection from their men. The more you can her those things, the more her heart will belong to you. When you take the time to connect with your partner, her trust and safety around you will build. When a woman feels that comfortable around a man, she can let go of her inhibitions.
Massage can establish the bonds of trust. If a man can be emotionally available to his partner, he will have her heart and soul, not just for a few months, but still after years of being together.
If you want to completely understand the power of massage, go out and get one. In fact, if you take the time to be the receiver, then you will be that much better and being the giver. You should understand what each stroke feels like to the person who is receiving it. You should know how it feels to lay, completely unclothed on a table while another person stands over you, warming massage oils. Some of the aspects, you’ll find are quite relaxing and even exhilarating. Other, however, will give you pause and you will better understand why your partner is pausing at the same actions.
Not only will your understanding of your partner’s position grow, but you will also get a chance to experience each stroke and move on your own. You can take mental notes of what feels good, what feels great, and what you wish had never happened in the first place. Once you’ve armed yourself with this knowledge, you will be that much more skilled in the art of massage.
There is nothing at all for you to lose in getting a massage. It will give you a better understanding of every aspect of the process and allow you to be more relaxed to be yourself.
Speaking of which: Be authentic. Be real. Be honest. Just be yourself. If you can be relaxed, then she will make herself available to you. Your partnership will prove to be a good time both in and out of the bedroom for a long time to come.
Now, stop reading and get to work on your assignments!