Sensual Massage To Strengthen Relationships - Relaxation is the key: Relaxing massage techniques
Long stretches
Long stretches will help to release tension and stress along the larger muscle groups. They are a very important part of the sensual massage that mostly focused on smaller muscle groups thus far. It can also portray a strong, masculine quality to your partner that can be a very desirable trait in her eyes.
Begin by applying a slight downward pressure on top of one of her knees and bending her body delicately to one side. Next, use your free hand to stretch her arm up over her head until both of your arms are completely outstretched.
Using the hand you are holding her hand with, slowly run it down her arm and over the side of her body that is facing you. Continuing to press her leg down, reverse this move by running your free hand again up her sides and back up her arm all the way to her fingertips. Repeat this up and down movement a few times as it is a very
stimulating technique that she will no doubt love. Remember while doing this not to overstretch her in any way. If she expresses any pain or discomfort, stop immediately and continue massaging her elsewhere a lighter or different technique.
Stretches like this can feel amazing to your partner. It can almost seem as if someone is contorting her body into yoga poses for her.
To give her a stimulating long muscle stretch across her shoulders, arms, chest and belly, grasp both of her hands with yours and extend her arms up over and behind her head. Next, in the reverse direction, bring her arms back up over her head and back down to the sides of her body.
This can prove to be an incredibly sensual experience for you partner. Having your body and face directly over her chest will be very stimulating to her and you’ll be able to tell by her breathing. It will open up her airways as well as increase blood flow to her larger muscle groups. Try it a few times, but be wary of using too much pressure of her arms.
Your next step is going to be a cool down for her. Run your hands, very lightly around her body. Start with her arms and slide your hands down her shoulders, neck and chest. Without stopping, run them over her belly and down her legs, right to her toes.
Legs and thighs
This next step is wear you start going for the gold. Your partner has been primed with all of your previous techniques. Her stress has been reduced; she’s breathing easily and is very relaxed. She’s also extremely excited and has shared an amazing experience with you. Don’t lose sight of your objectives, though. This is for her, so start off with some loving, long strokes around her body.
Now, it’s time to start ramping up. Place your hands onto one of her legs, begin moving them up her leg to the side of her body and continue up over her arm, up to her shoulder, and then up to the top of her head. Repeat the same movement down the opposite side of her body all the way down to her feet. Lightly touching and grazing sensitive and sexually arousing areas of her skin are highly encouraged with this move, and you should feel free enough at this point to tease her most private areas. Now, you’ll want to move them back down to her legs, where you will begin your final seduction.
Starting with one leg at a time, with palms facing down, place both of your hands on top of that leg just above her ankle. Now, using long slow strokes, massage up and down lightly the length of her leg. As you begin moving down from the top of either leg, let your hand drift and glide smoothly into the sensitive area of her inner thigh, then move down to her knee, over her shins, and all the way down to her foot. Repeat this move a few times over each leg and every time you do, come a bit closer to her vagina as you dip down into her thighs. You can even begin to ever so lightly graze her vaginal lips with the tips of your thumbs or fingertips to help prepare her for the erotic phase of the massage.
Provided she’s responding positively so far, it’s time to crank up the heat. Lift up one of her legs by bending it at the knee. Now, place her foot flat down on the surface she is lying on.
Now, you can finally get closer to her womanhood. In this position, you can easily stroke the back of her thighs. Not only is this are incredibly sensitive, but you can also massage all of the way from the bend of her knee to her butt.
In this position, begin by rubbing her calf muscles gently with both of your hands in an up-and-down motion. Do this a few times and then move your hands over the top of her upper leg and then down towards her hip. As you come back up, with your hands now placed on either side of her upper leg, delicately stroke her inner thigh. Repeat several times.
Next, with a downward stroke, move your hand completely underneath the backside of her leg and stroke down towards her butt and even go underneath it a bit. On the way back up, stop at the skin behind the backside of her knee, and lightly stroke around there with your fingertips. The sensations of this combination will surely ignite her fire of sexual desire.
Another effective move for increasing her desire for sex is to place both of your hands on the sides of one of her legs, just above the top of her knee. Next, make slow circular motions while you run your hands down her thigh. As your movements get closer to her vagina, let the fingertips of your hand on the inner side of thigh lightly graze her outer labia. Do this a few times up and down on each thigh area of both her legs.
While you’re in these incredibly sensitive areas, be sure to pay extremely close attention to your partner’s reaction. If you see and sign of discomfort whatsoever, stop what you’re doing immediately and move on to a less sensitive area. Conversely, if she is in the moment and moaning in delight, she probably wants more from you. Pay attention to her body language and continue with your massage.
Pick up one of your partner’s legs at the knee, but instead of placing her foot down, place it over the top of your inside shoulder and let it rest there. The underside of her leg is now completely exposed and her genitals are in a very vulnerable and suggestive position. Here you can rub the underside of her upper leg, the top of her upper leg, or do slow circular movements on the sides of her legs as previously suggested. Rub your hand up and down her inner thigh lightly and sensually, with each pass coming closer and closer to her vagina, until you lightly graze her outer lips.
Now it’s time to get a read on your partner. The most obvious sign would be a slow rocking in her pelvis. If you see this, then you have succeeded in bringing her to the absolute height of her arousal. Her body is telling you that she’s ready for more. This is where you will have to pick up on your partner’s specific signs. No two women are alike.
Although you know that she’s ready, don’t just drop everything and attack. Every move must be slow and sensual. To progress, simply start by running your fingers directly over her vagina, and then later your hand. Just be sure to be very gentle and then move back to her thigh and buttocks.
Are you ready for more?
Chapter summary
Your partner’s backside is the source of all of her stress, and her front side is the source of her pleasure. Begin with the back and move to the front.
Sensual massage is a technique to arouse your partner for more erotic purposes. It begins with your partner on her back. Your steps, in order, are: face and scalp massage, belly rub, arm stretches, full-body strokes, the hug and finally the legs and thighs.
Assignment
Approach your partner about performing a very special massage on her front side for her. Do this without any expectation of sex. The goal is to practice what you’ve learned here before giving her the full erotic experience.