Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 8: Level 3: Release – Details on the Orgasm

You have given your lover a standard massage followed by a labial massage and you got her completely relaxed. You escalated things with a labial massage and her arousal scale started rising. You have given her an orgasm with oral sex, fingering and G-spot manipulation. You have given her three deep and fully satisfying orgasms.

I have already discussed how to bring her to these three orgasms. This chapter will go into detail on what they are all about. I will go over what happens just before an orgasm and during the orgasm as well.

 

There are a few things that happen in a woman’s body when she is about to have an orgasm. You will learn to recognize these signs easily. She will start to breath deeper and heavier. She will start sweating more. Her vagina will clamp down on your finger more for longer periods of time. Her entire body tenses up.

This is where you will make the move from slow and steady stimulation to release. You will be building up tension all the way until the last second and she will explode with an orgasm.

It is possible to reach peak arousal without having an orgasm, but that is something you do not want to happen. You get your partner all the way to the peak of her arousal and it vanishes suddenly.

Tips on Making Sure Peak Arousal Leads to Orgasm

Tip #1 – Find what she likes and stick to it.

If you are stimulating her enough to give her multiple orgasms then stick with what you’re doing. You have probed her erogenous zones with your fingers and your tongue and you have found out how she likes to be stimulated. Stick with what works. You have already found the means to her optimal pleasure.

Sometimes couples will experiment and see if they can achieve the same orgasms going slower or faster than they did before. Nothing is wrong with experimenting, but I’m sure you will find that your first instincts are usually the best, especially if you’re paying attention. When she is nearing peak arousal; she needs a steady pace. This is not the time to experiment.

Tip #2 – Never switch positions in the middle of it.

It might be easy for you to maintain positions, but she is going to want to move around. She is going to squirm with pleasure, but you can’t let her change positions when she gets close to orgasm. Try to gently hold her body still.

The key to peak arousal being followed up by an orgasm is consuming her with sexual desire. You want to literally drive her wild as much as possible. Her body seems to overflow with pleasure at the moment of orgasm and she doesn’t seem to be able to contain it. Her body is tingling all over with sensations and tiny explosions.

When some women reach this level of pleasure they move around a lot and their body goes into a type of convulsion. If she moves around too much it takes up some of the energy that could be going to a deeper orgasm. If you keep her from squirming around too much, her orgasm come faster and it will be stronger.

When you let her move around too much when she’s approaching orgasm; the technique you are using is not going to feel as good to her. You already had her in the best position to feel pleasure and you let her move out of it. It will still feel good to her, but she won’t be at the top of her peak arousal.

Tip #3 – Help her achieve a full release.

You need to encourage her to have a full release. When she is approaching orgasm, say something hot to her. Tell her that you want to feel her cum. Make her feel comfortable to let go of her inhibitions and let herself feel the intense pleasure and release.

She might be nervous and think she has to urinate. Remember, G-spot stimulation is a different type of orgasm than clitoral stimulation. Let her know that this is how it will feel when you stimulate her G-spot and assure her that she will not urinate. If she thinks she is about to go pee; her pelvic muscles will tense up too much and take away from her arousal. Even if she squirts a little bit, it’s totally natural. Keep her relaxed and at ease all the way up to orgasm.

Tip #4 – Be aware of her breathing and make her aware of it.

You should have been watching her breathing patterns through the entire process. Don’t stop now. You need to pay attention to her breathing right up until she has an orgasm. Some women will feel inclined to hold their breath at the moment of peak arousal. Encourage her to keep breathing long, deep breaths. If she holds her breath, she will be stopping herself from having an orgasm and not even know it.

Remember to watch how her body tenses up and how her vaginal area tenses up as well. These are the major signs that she is getting closer to orgasm along with heavy breathing and moaning.

Find your rhythm and stick to it!

You have learned some valuable techniques to give women multiple orgasms. You want to use every one of those techniques to give her as many orgasms as you possibly can.

If you keep your rhythm and pressure going at the crucial moments, her orgasms will be deeper and more intense. If you stop at the wrong time, you are risking taking her right back down her arousal scale.

Always continue to apply your orgasm techniques until the orgasm is complete. Her body and vagina will continue to tense up as long as she is having an orgasm.

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As I said before, many women do not have orgasms with vaginal intercourse and some of them don’t have orgasms at all. They just never had a guy who knew how to do it. Some of them have become accustomed to faking their orgasms to satisfy their lover. Women can fake an orgasm pretty easily, but you can spot a fake orgasm if you know what to look out for.

Is Her Moan Pleasure or Performance?

If you have ever seen an adult film, then you know what a sexual performance is. The women overcompensate for effect and moan very loudly. Some women think that this is how it happens so they try to mimic what they have seen in adult films.

If her voice is too loud and clear and she is too vocal about her pleasure then it might seem suspicious. A good way to tell if moaning or dirty talk during peak arousal is real is how much her voice shakes. If a woman is getting close to orgasm; she’s not going to be able to speak very well. Her voice will be shaky and she
will seem like she’s in a state of euphoria.

Recognizing Body Movements

We have already discussed how a woman’s body, anus and vagina will tense up more and more the closer she gets to orgasm. The vagina will generally clamp down in intervals of less than a second and the pattern is steady. A girl who is good at faking can mimic the tensing of her body and vagina, but she won’t be able to keep up with a steady pattern of contractions like in a real orgasm.

Other ways to spot a fake orgasm:

• Her anus doesn’t tense up
• She doesn’t have a euphoric look in her eyes
• There is not a pinkish or red hue to her skin

If your lover’s muscles tense from head to toe, her vagina clamps down on your penis or finger, she gets wet, her voice shakes, she turns red and her breathing and moaning become deeper then she probably isn’t faking. At least you can be sure now that you know how to spot the signs of a fake orgasm. ****

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