Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 7: Level 2: Arousal- Approaching Peak Arousal

The third orgasm is really going to peak her pleasure and this one should come quicker than the other two. This orgasm will involve stimulating her G-spot and clitoris with combinations of fingers and tongue.

You can use either hand for this orgasm. If one arm is tired from the other two orgasms you can give her the third orgasm with the other hand.

The path to the final orgasm is going to start with oral stimulation. The G-spot stimulation will be added in later.

Get In Position:

Put her in the position she was in for the final stage of oral sex. Put her legs up as close to her chest as is comfortable for her. You want her vagina pointing up toward you as much as possible.

3rd Orgasm Part 1: Start and Stop Oral

• You will begin with the Start and Stop technique that you learned in the oral sex section. Place your tongue at the very bottom of the vagina. Spread your tongue over it and lick all the way up over the clitoris. Move the tongue down the same path all the way to the bottom. Take a few seconds to get from bottom to top. Finger
• Let your tongue rest at about the midway point on the vagina. Keep it there still for a few more seconds.
• Keep doing this for about 45 seconds to a minute.

3rd Orgasm Part 2: Fingering Techniques

• Get your fingers wet.
• Slide one or two fingers into her vaginal opening slowly with your fingernails facing down. Go in to about your second knuckle.
• Locate where her G-spot is by feeling around for the rough tissue just above the clitoris by the pubic bone. Once you find the spot just hold your finger on it. Don’t move your finger around yet. You just want to locate it.
• Bring your tongue in and start licking around her clitoris. Keep probing softly with your tongue until you feel her vagina clamp down on your finger.
• When you find the spot that makes her vagina clamp down; keep probing around it. Feel around with your tongue until you have found the spot that makes her vagina clamp down the hardest.
• Maintain the same pressure with your tongue and start experimenting with different licking speeds until you have found the one she likes the best.
• When you have found the best pressure, location and speed, stay in that level and hold on.
• While you are licking her clitoris at this level; begin stimulating the G-spot.

3rd Orgasm Part 3: The G-spot

Keep in mind that she has already had two orgasms. This orgasm is going to come even faster and easier. You might even find that she has her third orgasm before you even start stimulating her G-spot again.

It’s going to take some practice and rhythm to get used to stimulating the clitoris and G-spot at the same time. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t get it right away. It shouldn’t take long to get a pattern down that is right for you.

In and Out

• Push your finger in and out of her vagina while stimulating the G-spot with your finger curled up by the pubic bone.
• Start with slow movements with low pressure and stay there a minute. Increase the pressure and speed and stay there for another minute. Speed up to reach her optimum pressure and stay there for another minute.

Circular Style

• Move your finger around in a circular motion all around the G-spot.
• Start with slow movements with low pressure and stay there a minute. Increase the pressure and speed and stay there for another minute. Speed up to reach her optimum pressure and stay there for another minute.

Up and Down

• This fingering style can be done with one or two fingers. More advanced lovers will try three fingers but that depends on her preference.
• Start moving your finger(s) in an up and down motion. You will be bending your fingers and curling them back up toward her pubic bone. You don’t have to keep them on her G-spot. Keep brushing over it as you move your fingers up and down.
• Start with slow movements with low pressure and stay there a minute. Increase the pressure and speed and stay there for another minute. Speed up to reach her optimum pressure and stay there for another minute.

The Tap

• While you are curling your finger and moving it up and down, you start moving your entire hand up and down as well. Keep your up and down strokes going on the G-Spot.
• Start with slow movements with low pressure and stay there a minute. Increase the pressure and speed and stay there for another minute. Speed up to reach her optimum pressure and stay there for another minute.
• Just in case she doesn’t have an orgasm by this time; slow down to your original speed and pressure and start the climb in intensity over again.

You have a few choices of what you can do at this point. It’s ultimately up to you, but here are some suggestions:

1. Move on to the next level without penetration. I will explain the possibilities here later on in the book.
2. She can satisfy you with oral sex and/or hand manipulation.
3. Penetrate her vagina with your penis. (Refer to the sexual positions section for this option).
4. Use more oral sex or fingering to give her more orgasms. Remember, it will be easier to give her an orgasm now. You can jump in and try giving her an orgasm with penile penetration at any time.

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