Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 7: Level 2: Arousal- Approaching Peak Arousal

Oral Sex Part 2 – Rhythm and Timing

This section we will discuss your style of licking and getting a good rhythm going.

Style # 1: The Start and Stop

1. Go back to the bottom of the vagina where you started. Do the long lick that I already described and stop just above the clitoris. Run your tongue back down, but this time double the speed that you used in Part 1.
2. Let your tongue rest on the vaginal opening and spread it out as much as possible. Hold it there for a few seconds.
3. Keep doing this over and over for 2 to 3 minutes.

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Style # 2: Short Licks and Long Lick

1. Go back to the bottom again and start a slow lick upwards. This time you are going to stop in the middle and go back to the bottom. Don’t get your tongue near the clitoris going up. Do this a few times.
2. Unexpectedly take one of the licks all the way up to the clitoris.
3. Go back to the licks half way up into one long lick and repeat the motion for 2 to 5 minutes.

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Style # 3: Short Licks and Long Licks (Random)

The key to this style is to be unexpected. You are going to randomize your licking styles to catch her off-guard. This will add to the teasing and the less predictable you can be with sex acts the better.

Concentrate on teasing during this style of licking. You are going to want to stimulate her clitoris by teasing it, licking it then teasing it again. She will never know when those licks will come so it will really start to drive her arousal up.

1. Just like in the last style; start from the bottom and stop your tongue in the middle. Go back and forth like this as many as ten times.
2. Unexpectedly bring one long lick from the bottom to the top and really stimulate the clitoris.
3. Keep doing this and repeat the motion for up to five minutes.

If you have gone through these 3 styles or even repeated one of them for very long then she will be very close to orgasm. Her arousal scale is approaching its peak. Now she will be prime to receive additional techniques that are really going to drive the orgasm home.

Oral Sex Part 3 – Added Techniques

The final oral sex techniques will take her over the edge and she will be having her first orgasm of the session. This is when you will be finding out exactly which licking technique she likes the best. When you find what raises her arousal level the best you will repeat that technique until she explodes with an orgasm.

Women have a type of convulsion when they have an orgasm. I have already explained how all the muscles in their body tense during orgasm. You are going to want to watch for the same kind of tension in her vagina. You will be able to feel when her vagina starts tensing up with your fingers.

Here is what you need to find out:

• What speed of licking is going to get her off the best
• The most sensitive part of her clitoris
• How much you should move your tongue

1. Get your fingers wet
2. Slide one or two fingers into her vaginal opening slowly with your fingernails facing down. Go in to about your second knuckle.
3. Locate where her G-spot is by feeling around for the rough tissue just above the clitoris by the pubic bone. Once you find the spot just hold your finger on it. Don’t move your finger around yet. You just want to locate it.
4. Keep your fingers there and wait for her vaginal walls to tense. It will feel like her vagina is clamping down on your finger slightly. Pay close attention because some women clamp down tight while others feel like a small spasm.
5. Bring your tongue in and start licking around her clitoris. Keep probing softly with your tongue until you feel her vagina clamp down on your finger.
6. When you find the spot that makes her vagina clamp down; keep probing around it. Feel around with your tongue until you have found the spot that makes her vagina clamp down the hardest.
7. Maintain the same pressure with your tongue and start experimenting with different licking speeds until you have found the one she likes the best.
8. Hold here for a bit. Keep that same licking speed on that same spot and feel her vagina clamp down on your finger over and over. Keep going no matter how much she squirms (and she WILL squirm).
9. The closer she comes to having an orgasm, the harder her vagina will squeeze your finger. When she is about to explode; her vagina will clamp down and stay clamped down for a longer period of time.
10. Hold the same speed, pressure and location. Don’t veer from this pace. If you change rhythm or location of your stimulation you could lower her arousal scale and this is not the time to do it.
11. Her squirming should go into overdrive at this point. No matter how much she squirms; keep you pace, pressure and location.
12. The 1st orgasm!!!

The effort for the second orgasm begins right after the end of the first one. Your fingers should still be on her G-spot. Your amount of stimulation will go back to being slow and deliberate. You are going to want a slow build up the arousal scale again. The difference is that this time she will begin at a higher spot on the scale. She will already be sensitive from the first orgasm.

Getting Her Into Position:

She will stay lying on her back, but you want her legs up higher. Push her knees up as close to her chest as is comfortable for her. Have her hold her legs up behind her knees if you like.

Getting You Into Position:

You are going to change your position a little bit here. You won’t be lying on your stomach this time. Get up on one knee and get in a good fingering position.

Note:

You can also choose to lie behind her or beside her while fingering her. This will allow you to kiss at the same time you are stimulating her G-spot.

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