Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 6: Level 2 – Arousal
Massaging the front of the body
From Standard Massage to Labial Massage
Here is what you will notice by the time you get to the labial massage:
- She will be visibly aroused and her vagina should be very wet. The teasing has escalated enough to where she is starting to feel intense sexual desire.
- She will be completely relaxed from head to toe and ready to receive pleasure. Her body will be sensitive to the touch and each touch will inch her closer to orgasm.
You will once again be feeling for knots that you need to work out with massage, but this time you will be looking for tension in her pelvic muscles and vagina. The areas of tension will be very small and feel like a small rock under her skin. Work your fingers into these knots gently and work them out the way you did the knots in her body.
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If you massage her with oils, be aware that these oils affect a standard latex condom. If you get oil on your latex condom it could break. If this is a concern; use condoms made out of polyurethane.
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Labial Massage Part 1: The Initial Massage
After the body massage; your hands should still be on each side of her vagina near her labia majora or outer lips. Apply pressure and begin to massage that area.
Use both hands and work your fingers from the bottom of her vagina to the top. Be sure to touch only her outer lips. You are still building anticipation so you don’t want to touch her inner lips just yet.
The clitoris can be stimulated this way without even touching it. Get her outer labia between your fingers and squeeze it slightly. A little bit of pressure will feel amazing to her, but be careful not to squeeze too hard. Once you get it between your fingers; move your fingers up and down. You will be essentially using her labia to
stimulate her clitoris.
Labial Massage Part 2: The Mons Pubis
Remember, the mons pubis is just above the vagina where the pelvic bone is. Start massaging her mons pubis gently and look for areas of tension here as well. You will be massaging her just above her clitoris so this should be moving her into an even more heightened state of arousal.
That will mark the end of the massage portion of her arousal.
From beginning to end; the massage process should have taken around twenty minutes or less. You could take more or less time on the massage depending on the person. The key is to be perceptive and learn to recognize when she is ready to move on to the next level of arousal.
The massage level of arousal should have her completely relaxed and hungry for sexual contact.