Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 6: Level 2 – Arousal
10 Spots to Massage
1) Back
This is one of the most obvious spots to concentrate on because of how much tension many of us carry in our backs. Our back not only holds tension; it plays a big part in walking or sitting or doing just about any activity.
It’s best to use oil on the back so you can soothe the skin for the friction that follows. Glide your hands across her back gently and apply added pressure to any swollen or knotted areas. Start at the neck and work your way all the way down to her ass.
2) Neck / Shoulders
This massage can be done with her sitting upright or lying on her stomach. Start slow and soft when you squeeze her and put pressure on her muscles. You don’t want to squeeze too hard and hurt her. Gauge the amount of pressure you use by her reactions. She will probably let out a little sigh if you’re doing it right.
Begin this massage at her neck at the base of her skull. Work your way down into her shoulders. You should feel the sensation of her relaxation moving from her neck and spreading into her shoulders. Some like to start here and move down into the back. This is entirely up to you.
3) Feet
A foot massage is one of the best ways to relax a woman, especially if she has been on her feet all day. The feet can very well be an erogenous zone. Concentrate on the soles of her feet between her heel and toes. Massage her toes then work your way up and down her feet.
4) Legs
The legs can be an erogenous zone as well, especially the knees and the back of the knees. Many women love when a man touches their legs and it feels even better when it is part of a relaxing massage.
It’s best to massage both legs at the same time. Use plenty of oil here as well. You want to be careful not to tickle her. The backs of her knees will be especially sensitive. Rub them softly without being so soft that it tickles her. It’s okay for her to squirm a little, but you don’t want to make her laugh or pull away at this point.
The most important muscle to actually massage is the calf. This is where most of the tension in the legs will be. Start the leg massage at the back of the legs down by her heels. Work your way all the way up to the ass.
5) Ass
While you were massaging her back and legs; you probably brushed up against her ass a few times. By the time you actually get to it; she will be dying for you to touch her ass.
Take out the oil and let a few drops fall on her ass cheeks. Leave it there. Don’t massage it in just yet. Allow the oil to run down her ass cheeks and into her crack.
You will probably notice that she gets the chills when she feels the oil run down. This will contribute to your teasing.
Start by massaging her ass with an open palm. Apply pressure as you run your hands all over both of her ass cheeks. Then you can start squeezing it. Tighten your fingers and gently grab pieces of her ass. Sometimes it’s good to use your closed fist to work her ass cheeks a little deeper.
Gently turn her over on her back. Lie beside her and prepare to massage more body parts.
6) Ears
Gently take her ear between your thumb and index finger. Caress the top of it and work your way down to her earlobe. This should be extremely pleasurable for her and make her feel closer to you. You are moving ever so slowly but ever so steady up her arousal scale.
7) Head
Most women love it when a man runs his fingers through their hair. It gives them a tickling sensation that sends a charge down their body. Apply slight pressure until you feel your fingers push into her scalp. Apply slight pressure and work your fingers around in a circle. Make sure to be gentle and keep the pressure light and stop now and then to run your fingers through her hair again.
8) Chest and Breasts
Now it’s time to move on to an even more erogenous zone. Her chest and breasts are a sensitive area and can sometimes elevate her arousal very quickly when caressed or kissed. Start massaging her just below her neck. Place your fingers near her collar bone and massage her chest with your thumbs just above her breasts.
Move on to her breasts and remember to avoid her nipples at first. Touch her and massage her lightly all around her nipples. This is when you want to start bringing licking and kissing into your massage. Get your hands close to her nipples and then lick them or pinch them instead. They will be in a heightened state of arousal by now and her nipples will probably be erect. She might want to start touching herself at this point. Don’t let her do it just yet. You are still building anticipation and this is going to drive her wild.
9) Stomach
This is your last massage in the cycle because it is closest to the vagina. Start from her breasts and move down her ribs. Make sure not to tickle her here as well because many girls are ticklish on each side of their stomach. Apply light pressure and run your hands down her waist and to her hips. Stroke her up and down. Get closer to her vagina each time you move your hands down.
10) Do it All Over Again
Continue the muscle massage and keep getting your hands closer to her mons pubis. Touch and caress the skin above her pubic hair. Keep going past the vagina, down her legs, to her feet and back up again. Keep doing this and get closer to her vagina each time. This will begin to build her anticipation to a feverish level and she will want you even more.
Keep massaging her body until you feel that she is fully relaxed and ready to move on to the next level of arousal.
The last time you come up from her feet; move your hands up her inner thighs until you are near her labia.
Massaging the back of the Body: Overall
Massaging the back of the body: Lower
