Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 5: Level 1 – Attraction
Turning Attraction into Sexual Attraction
As we have discussed before; sexual tension needs to begin from the moment you lay eyes on her. You must create sexual tension in order to take your affections to the next level.
I won’t get into ways to attract women. That is for another discussion. My instruction begins when that first attraction is created. I am going to assume that you already have a partner who is ready to have sex.
The techniques I show you for turning attraction into sexual attraction will work on any woman, but we are focusing on the attraction of a sexual partner.
Look Her in the Eyes
The most important thing about the initial attraction is eye contact. Many women will determine whether they are attracted to you in the moment of eye contact. The way she reacts to your initial eye contact will determine how you go forward.
A woman’s reaction to eye contact can vary. Sometimes they just feel the onset of desire. Sometimes the right eye contact sparks something in them and they become instantly turned on. This is that rare moment when a woman wants to have sex with you the moment she lays eyes on you.
When you make eye contact with another person and hold it; that means that you are comfortable with them. It means that you are interested in them and not intimidated. When you hold eye contact it shows confidence and that is very attractive to women. She will at once feel that you are a confident person and that she is desirable.
Keys to Effective Eye Contact:
- Know when to initiate eye contact. You can’t just stare at her all the time. Keep most of your eye contact confined to when you are talking to each other. This will show that you are attentive and you care about what she has to say. If you are walking down the street or watching a movie together and you are constantly trying to make eye contact; it might have the opposite effect.
- Don’t stare. You must be careful not to become mesmerized or zone out while making eye contact. You don’t want your eyes to become wide and come off looking like a pervert. The key is to look like you are confident, not turned on.
- Be conscious of how wide your eyes are open. Remember; no wide eyed stares. Close them slightly. You don’t want to close them too much or you will look stoned or sleepy. If you open them up too wide then you are approaching the pervert vibe. You want them about three quarters of the way open. This will make your eye contact more beckoning rather than making her want to run away.
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- When eye contact is made, point your head down a little. Don’t hang your head like you’re depressed. Think of it as the opposite of you turning up your nose at her. You are turning your nose down so that you look slightly more seductive. Remember that these techniques are subtle and should not be taken to extremes. If you move your head down just slightly, it is a sign to the opposite sex that you are interested.
This type of eye contact might look like this:
- Once eye contact is made; don’t be the first one to look away. You want to hold eye contact until she is the first one to look away. Breaking eye contact might send her a sign that you are not interested or trying to play hard to get. This usually doesn’t work for guys.
- Be aware of how much you blink. If you feel that you have to; blink slow. If you blink too much then it will show her that you are nervous. A nervous guy is not a confident guy and we all know the importance of confidence in sexual attraction.