Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 4: Mapping Out the Female Orgasm
Level 2 – Arousal
By now, she should be ready and willing to have sex with you. You have reached a level of sexual attraction and you are ready to step up the effort in her arousal.
Just like attraction; there are two levels of arousal. The first level deals with the build-up. It deals with increasing her arousal. The second level is taking her to the top of her arousal scale until she is ready to have an orgasm.
When you are first building her arousal; you will make every effort to relax her sexually. Make sure she is at ease and receptive of your techniques. You must add to the sexual tension slowly and build upon it until she is ready to release.
Some people don’t associate a sexual situation with relaxation. That’s where a lot of guys go wrong. You don’t have to be eager and rush her arousal. It will happen naturally and her reaction to your techniques will let you know how fast you can move to the next level.
Things to Expect During the Arousal Level –
- Harder and faster breathing
- Tensing of the muscles
- Elevated heart rate
- Red or pinkish hue to her skin. Many but not all women will get red or pink on certain parts of their body
- Breasts will grow or harden slightly, nipples will become erect and the veins will be visible through the skin
What will be happening inside her? –
- The higher portion of the vagina expands
- Her vagina becomes wet
- Her uterus elevates
What will be happening on the outside? –
- The clitoris becomes enlarged
- The labia majora (outer lips) become flat and spread out
- The labia minora (inner lips) expand and open
