Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 3: Female Sex Organs and How to Stimulate Them
Female Sex Organs – Internal
The Vagina –
This one is easy. We should all know this one. This is the sex organ where the penis enters. Low and behold; it’s just the right shape for the penis to fit in nicely.
You may know where it is, but you may not know where the most sensitive parts are. Nearly all of the nerves in the vagina are located in the lower portion near the opening. This is where you will focus most of your attention.
If most of the nerves are in the front near the opening of the vagina that would mean that there are nearly none inside. She might feel the pressure of deep penetration, but there are no nerves to stimulate that far inside.
How does this affect you?
If most of her nerve endings are near the opening of the vagina; she does not need deep penetration to become aroused. If you have a smaller than average penis; you can still stimulate her and bring her to orgasm.
The Cervix –
This is the opening to the uterus at the very back of the vagina.
The cervix does not contribute to sexual arousal, but you should be mindful of it during intercourse. It may not serve a purpose during sex, but it is still sensitive. If you push too hard during sex you could cause her to feel discomfort or even bruise her cervix.
This may be a problem area for some men who have an above average penis. If the penis is long; it is likely that it will hit the cervix during deep penetration. Some women enjoy when the penis reaches their cervix. Others will feel discomfort and complain about the sensation. This can be remedied by changing positions. Remember, it
is always important to keep her comfortable. Thrusting away and hurting her is no way to make her feel comfortable.
Her “G” Spot –
Ah, the elusive G-spot. Many men have tried to locate this spot to no avail. They don’t bother to find out where it is. They just poke around for it hoping to hit it. Well, I’ll tell you exactly where it is.
Go about two inches inside the vaginal opening; maybe a little less. It’s located at the top within an inch or so from the middle on either side.
You might need to feel around for it a little bit. Her reaction will let you know when you hit it. Carefully insert your finger with your palm facing up. Curl your finger up around the pelvic bone. Wiggle your finger as if pulling her toward you.
Along with this motion, you will be moving your finger from side to side. This is basically scanning the area to find the G-spot. Remember to probe gently. See the illustration below:
You’re probing for it; now let’s talk about how you discover it. As you move your finger around; you are looking for a concentration of tissue. It will be a soft lump about the size of a coin. (Sizes will vary.) The texture of the tissue should be rougher than the tissue around it. This is the G-spot.
The more you arouse her, the bigger the G-spot will become. It basically swells up with stimulation. If you are having trouble finding it; it might be a good idea to arouse her in other ways and come back to it. The more she is aroused, the more swollen her G-spot will be and therefore easier to find.
What else should you know about the G-spot?
Once you become familiar with locating the G-spot; you will see a major difference in how women respond to you sexually. You would be surprised at how many guys don’t even try. Selfish lovers leave less of an impression and are ultimately forgettable. If you locate and stimulate her G-spot; she will never forget you.
Stimulating the G-spot is a powerful sexual tool because the orgasms are deeper and more intense. She can have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation only, but the G-spot orgasms are stronger and more defined. Plus, when you give her an orgasm by stimulating her G-spot, she can have multiple orgasms. Each orgasm will come faster and get progressively more intense.
This is all you need to know to find the G-spot. It seems pretty simple doesn’t it? Well, simple as it may be, you already have an advantage over many other men. Sadly, most men have no idea where the G-spot is. It may be a disadvantage for women, but it’s a big advantage for you.