Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 2: Six Steps to Female Orgasm

You are not alone in the quest for the female orgasm. Believe me; your lover wants it to happen just as bad as you do. These are some tips for her to keep in mind that will help you in your quest. You can even print these out for her so she can keep it for reference. Both of you will win in the end.

• Be proud of your body and embrace the things that turn you on. Pay attention to what fills you with desire and your man will as well. When you find out what turns you on the most; let your man know. He wants to please you and a little input from you will help him tremendously.
• Keep the lines of communication open during sex. Don’t hold back when you start to moan too loud. Tell him how good it feels when he touches you. Be sure not to go overboard and fake it. Just let go a little and let yourself experience the pleasure of foreplay and sex without holding back.
• Let go of your inhibitions. Don’t feel like a dirty girl for craving sexual desire. Don’t distract yourself with any negative thoughts like that. Let yourself go and open yourself up to a whole new realm of sexual desires.
• When your man says he wants to give you oral sex, he means it. Take him up on his offer and don’t pull him up because you think he doesn’t want to be down there. He wants to do whatever turns you on the most. Let your man make you cum. This can sometimes turn a guy on just as much as it does you.

Chemicals in the body also have a lot to do with an orgasm. Both men and women have chemical reactions that cause the muscles to contract and make the body more sensitive to the touch when we approach orgasm. One such chemical is Oxytocin. This is a hormone that is formed in the pituitary gland. Although both men and women are affected by this hormone; women are believed to be even more affected by it.

This hormone causes contractions in a woman’s womb. The wall of her vagina contracts and her entire body goes into a type of convulsion. Research shows that, when there is an elevated amount of Oxytocin in a woman’s system, it contributes to her having a more intense and deeper orgasm.

Oxytocin does not just affect a woman physically. It also affects her emotions. It gives her a feeling of bonding with her lover and makes a strong emotional connection. It’s easy to see why this hormone is so important to a female orgasm. It makes her orgasms more powerful and also makes her feel more emotional pleasure.

You will find ways to release this chemical later in this book. I will give you step by step guides for the best ways to release it. This will strengthen her sexual bond with you and she will probably want to have sexy with you a lot more.

The information I have just given you on the six steps to female orgasm are a lot to take in. Now that you have the information; it’s time to set the steps in motion. If you take in the information and don’t apply it to your sex life; it’s not going to help you.

Don’t just read the book and take in the information. Put the information to work for you. Commit yourself to the goal of giving your woman an orgasm and follow it through. These techniques and procedures will work, but you have to practice them.

Don’t hide what you are reading for your lover. Show her and see how she can help you in the process. She will be impressed that you are trying so hard to please her and will be more than happy to help. Make sure to communicate with her and make her feel comfortable to give you feedback on what techniques she likes the most.

She will be more than grateful when she is enjoying a mind-blowing orgasm every time she sleeps with you.

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