Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 1: Intro
Female Orgasms: The Holy Grail of Sex
Giving a woman an orgasm can be very gratifying to a man. Making a woman cum often heightens the man’s pleasure. It makes him feel virile and desirable. Male orgasms can be intense, but female orgasms are even more so. I will attempt to explain why women have much deeper orgasms than men.
There have been many studies done on the female orgasm and I have conducted some private studies of my own. I have asked many women to describe what a female orgasm feels like. Many have said, when they approach orgasm, they begin to feel the sensation of floating in the air. This is immediately followed by a rush of intense pleasure. This electric feeling starts at their clitoris and spreads throughout their entire body. They tell me that their vagina starts to feel warm and tingles with sensitivity. Many women have told me that they begin to feel a constricting feeling in their vagina and pelvic area. This often causes the vagina to tighten around the penis.
Most women will not provide you with such a clear and concise explanation as to what an orgasm feels like. Some women are sadly not that familiar with it. They attempt to describe it and it sounds like an impossible task. It sounds like some magic trick. In many ways; it is.
Imagine what it must be like to be a woman. Some women simply never achieve orgasm. What if you had to go without having an orgasm? How would you feel if you had sex and still could not have an orgasm? You would have such a severe case of blue balls that you couldn’t think about anything else but having an orgasm.
If that happened to you; you might just decide that sex is not worth the hassle. You would become so frustrated with the process that it might not even feel like a pleasurable experience. This is how women feel when their man cannot give them an orgasm.
If you look at it this way; it’s not such a mystery why women lose interest in sex after they have been with a guy for a while. They feel frustration with the process and they can no longer derive pleasure from it. They end up just going through the motions to please their man, but never really feel the sensation of an orgasm themselves.
Believe it or not; this is what many women are going through. Something has to be done and I’m doing my part by showing you how to give her that elusive orgasm.
Most men have a lot to learn when it comes to giving a woman pleasure; much less bringing her to orgasm.
Why Can’t Most Men Give a Woman an Orgasm?
Most men don’t know a hell of a lot about the giving a woman an orgasm. This is because most men are not properly informed on what to do.
What do you do if you want to be an engineer, for instance? You can’t just decide to become an engineer and magically have the skills to be one. You need education andtraining to accomplish the duties of an engineer. The same idea applies to giving a woman an orgasm. You can’t be expected to know how to do it if you were never trained to do so.
Think about how you found out about sex. Did you watch porn? Did you ask your friends? Did you learn it in sex education?
What can you learn by these forms of sexual education?
Let’s start with watching porn. The first thing you need to realize is that this is not real. Most porn is a fantasy. When you ‘think’ you see a woman having an orgasm, she is probably faking it. The women are paid good money to perform and make the viewer think they are experiencing intense pleasure. You might learn some good
positions from porn, but that is the extent of your education. If you only learned about female orgasms through porn; you still have a lot to learn.
So, how about learning about sex from your buddies? Let’s face it. Your friends cannot be trusted to give you a truthful and detailed account of their sexual exploits. They will often embellish on details of their sexual prowess and stretch the truth far beyond having any educational value.
What about sex education classes? Surely you can learn about orgasms if you take a class on it right? Don’t be so sure. Sex education classes aren’t exactly geared toward showing you how to have better sex. Your school, as well as your parents, would much rather you not have sex at all. This is usually the motivation of a sex education class.
Sexual education classes mostly educate you on the horrors of unplanned pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Having good and highly pleasurable sex is not exactly a common core standard when it comes to sex education. You might learn about the process of sex with educational diagrams and pictures, but they won’t teach
you how to give a woman an orgasm.
Your sex education class probably never mentioned stimulating the clitoris or different techniques on how to make a woman have an orgasm.
I’m not saying that sex education is not important. It is very important to educate ourselves on safe sex. We need to hear about how to avoid STD’s or unwanted pregnancy. What we wanted to hear was how to go down on a woman. We wanted valuable tips on how to give girls an orgasm every time. That is education we never got from Sex Ed.
That’s why I created this guide. I want to give you the sex education you always wanted, but never received.
What Will This Guide Show You?
The goal of this guide is pretty straight-forward. I want to educate you on the fine art of giving women orgasms. You can learn valuable facts and techniques about the female orgasm that you may not have heard before. Once you finish; you can always use this guide as reference on your journey to being a master of sex.
The guide is written from a male perspective. It will help you tremendously and you will be able to relate to it because it’s written with a male sensibility in mind. It will help you, but it will also help your partner. She will be so glad you read this guide because she is the one who will reap the benefits.
I will provide details on exactly what a female orgasm entails. I will also provide you with strategies and techniques to put this information to good use. I will let you know exactly what needs to be done and when to do it.
The information I give you is just part of your training. The most effective parts of the guide are the ones that give you the tools to learn through hands-on experience.
Now that the introduction is out of the way; let’s dive a little deeper into the enigma of the female orgasm.