Chapter 3: Personal Accounts of Erectile Dysfunction
James, Age 56, develops Erectile Dysfunction after almost 30 years of marriage
James was in a happy marriage with a wife that he loved very much. They got along great and their marriage was a happy and healthy one. His sex life was amazing with both he and his wife feeling content with each other. They decided to have a baby. Their perfect marriage became about their child and he was fine with that. He had a beautiful son that he cherished and nurtured throughout his life. They were a wonderful family that cared for each other and formed a close bond. Their son graduated High School and it came time for him to go off to college. He was lucky to get into a good school, but he had to leave home.
The two parents were devastated that their son was leaving their tight-knit little family, but he had to branch out sometime. The couple took the good with the bad and decided that they would make the best out of their son’s absence. They vowed that they would rekindle the passion in their marriage and start having frequent sex again. Suddenly, they were stopped dead in their tracks. James was only 56, but he was having trouble with his erections. The excitement to reignite their passion turned to frustration and discouragement for James.
He realized that he was suffering from Erectile Dysfunction. He almost immediately became depressed about it. He felt that he had lost his sex drive and he was never going to get it back again. He was afraid that he would have to resign any thoughts of ever having normal sexual intercourse again. His depression and frustration got worse and worse. It started to affect his wife too. She became restless and irritable because of sexual frustration. They were both a mess and they were not getting along for the first time in their marriage. They were both so angry that they had waited all this time to have their life to themselves again and ED was throwing a stick in the spokes. For the first time in their marriage; they were not happy.
One day, his wife found The Guide to Eliminating Erectile Dysfunction and they started using it. James was skeptical and it was hard to keep him motivated when they first started reading the book. He didn’t believe that a book could cure his ED. He had accepted the fact that he was “sexually defective”. Luckily, his wife believed in the guide and insisted that he stick to it. Boy was he glad he did.
James didn’t believe at first that such a simple solution could work after so many complicated ones had failed. The Guide to Eliminating Erectile Dysfunction helped them overcome their problems with sex, but it didn’t stop there. It brought the passion back in their sex life as if they were young again. They stopped fighting and their lives returned to bliss once again. They were on the path to a broken marriage and this book pulled them out of the doldrums. They had their lives back and were able to enjoy sex again like never before.
