Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 5: Level 1 – Attraction
There are two things that you want to achieve in the attraction level. You need to achieve the initial reaction and carry that over into the sexual attraction.
Before we get into initiating attraction and building it into sexual attraction; let’s talk about the importance of building sexual tension.
Sexual Tension
Sexual tension is something that should always be present in some form during the entire process. You should always be thinking of ways to build the sexual tension no matter how subtle. The better you are at building sexual tension; the more often you will be having sex.
You can make an effort to build sexual tension from the moment you get up in the morning. If you live with her; give her an affectionate touch and a kiss on the forehead the moment she opens her eyes.
Even if you don’t live with her you can begin to build sexual tension. Send her a flirtatious e-mail or text her to let her know you’re thinking about her and throw in something kinky before you start your day.
Pay attention to how you spend your day and seize any opportunity to throw in a flirtation or any gesture to build sexual tension. If you stay alert and make an effort; you will be able to add to the sexual tension without having to devote a large amount of time and energy to it.
This goes for the men out there who live with their sexual partner as well. Sexual tension isn’t just important for single guys on the prowl. It’s also important for men who live with the same woman for years to maintain sexual tension. If you get lazy in the levels leading to her arousal then you are more likely to lose some of the spark in your sex life.
It might be even more important to make an effort to maintain sexual tension in a long relationship. The longer you are with a woman; the more likely your sex life is to become stale if you don’t make sure that both of you stay sexually gratified. The more of an effort you make to make her orgasms stronger; the stronger your bond will be and the harder she will work at pleasing you in return.
It is best to raise her level of arousal as much as possible before actually having sexual intercourse. The more you build her anticipation for sex; the more turned on she will become. The more turned on she is, the better sex you will have.