Chapter Six: More about Talking Dirty

We have given you all the tools you need to use dirty talk to heighten the sexual pleasure in both you and your partner, but don’t stop there. There are a few more things you should know that will help you out. This chapter will deal with giving you additional information that will help talking dirty be more effective.

Make your Dirty Talk Personal and Comfortable

Keep in mind that you don’t have to follow the dirty talk in this book word for word. Read the phrases and say them out loud to yourself. If they don’t feel like something you would say then change them. Add some words or take out some words until they feel comfortable coming out of your mouth.

You must be confident in order for your dirty talk to have the most impact. That is why it is crucial that this dirty talk be things that you would really say. They should also be things that your woman likes to hear. Not all women are going to be into all of the phrases in this book. Be attentive to her sensibility and the phrases that will work the best on her. If you are not confident with your dirty talk; it will come off as weak or even perverted. You definitely do not want that.

The easier it is to talk dirty during the initial phase of sexual arousal; the easier it will be to transition into the dirtier talk of the later phases.

Don’t Just Jump Right Into It

You must treat talking dirty much like sexual arousal. You wouldn’t just jump on your partner and start fingering her. You have to ease into it. You can’t just jump right in. The same goes with dirty talk. You have to ease into it or it won’t have the desired effect. Dirty talk, as well as sexual arousal, has to be accumulative in order to be the most effective.

If you don’t know your sexual partner that well or you have never talked dirty to her before; she is not going to want to hear things like:

• You want me to fuck you like a slut
• You love being my little fuck doll

Imagine how those phrases will sound when you are just starting to get intimate with your woman. She will think you are a maniac!

When you are in the beginning stages of sexual arousal; be sure to use the beginning stages of dirty talk as well.

Making Your Dirty Talk Personal

You want to make sure that not all your dirty talk is generalized. You must make it personal for it to be the most effective.

Some of the phrases in this book will seem a little hardcore, but you will be surprised at how many women respond to really dirty talk. Don’t be surprised if your woman loves hearing things like:

• I want to fuck you like a whore
• You love being a little slut
• I’m going to stretch your pussy with my cock

You can make these phrases even more sexual if you add the a little word here and there to make it more personal. Here is a sample using the above phrases:

• I want to fuck you like you’re my whore
• You love being my little slut
• My cock is going to stretch your tight pussy

The changes are small, but these small changes make the dirty talk more personal. It helps these phrases get inside her head more so they are more effective.

These changes assure your partner that she is not just a whore. She is your whore. Her pleasure belongs to you and you are in charge of giving it to her.

NOTE: Make sure that, when you talk this dirty to her, it is only when you are intimate and about to have sex. Talking extremely dirty only works if you talk to her extremely respectful outside of sexual situations. The better you are to her when you are not having sex, the more effective your dirty talk will be. It will be a welcome change in your behavior that will drive her sexual desire.

The main point of this is to be sure that you are telling her that she is yours. You are not just calling her names. You are declaring your intense desire for her and the need to take her sexually. She will be very turned on by this.