Giving Her An Orgasm - Chapter 7: Level 2: Arousal- Approaching Peak Arousal

This chapter will deal with the end of the arousal phase, just before orgasm. Some of the techniques and exercises in this chapter will lead to orgasm, but we will go into more detail when we get into Level 3: Release.

I wanted to delve a little bit into the subject of orgasms in this chapter because I want level 3 to flow as smoothly as possible into Level 4. You will be giving her more than one orgasm anyway, so you might as well learn as many ways as possible to make it happen.

It will also be a little better for you to learn about orgasms while you are in the arousal phase. Orgasm should go hand in hand with arousal.

This section will be talking about peak arousal leading into orgasms, but level 3 will let you know more about the ins and outs of a female orgasm.

Now we will discuss stimulating the female sex organs. Before we begin; there are a few things you should know going in:

Don’t Settle for 1 Orgasm. Make it 3

I mentioned this earlier, but I can’t emphasize enough how important it is. Here are a few reasons you should always make it 3.

Many men don’t realize that there are very few women who have an orgasm through penile penetration. It is definitely possible to give a woman an orgasm with penile penetration, but it doesn’t happen right away. She needs to be stimulated in other ways before insertion so her sex organs will be more prepared to have an orgasm. She will be much more likely to have an orgasm if she is already stimulated when you put your penis inside her. If you give her 3 orgasms before penile penetration; she will be completely sexually satisfied no matter how quick you are on the draw.

The amount of things she is willing to do for you increase when you give her multiple orgasms. Even if she is already hot for you; she will try that much harder to please you if you have just give her 3 orgasms. This goes back to the old rule of give and you shall receive.

You may not realize how few guys can even give a woman an orgasm. You will probably have a leg up on any guy she has ever slept with. If she has never had 3 orgasms at one time; imagine how much she will love it if you give her 3 orgasms before you even enter her.

Remember that you don’t have to commit to all 3 orgasms every time. This is just a goal that you want to try your best to achieve. 1 is fine. 2 are great. You can even take it to the other extreme and give her 10. The point is that you want to strive to please her as much as possible before you put your penis inside of her. 3 is a great number to strive for and it will make it even easier for her to cum a 4th time through penile penetration.

The 3 orgasms you should give her in order:

1) Orgasm by Clitoris
2) Orgasm by G-spot
3) Orgasm by both Clitoris and G-spot

You should always begin by giving her an orgasm by stimulating her clitoris. This is the most sensitive female sex organ; at least initially. This is going to be the spot that plays the biggest part at the beginning of her sexual arousal. It is also easier to give a woman a clitoral orgasm. The order is deliberate because each orgasm facilitates the next one and makes the next one easier to achieve. When you stimulate the clitoris; the G-spot is much more pronounced and ready to be stimulated.

When you give her a clitoral orgasm you will want to begin looking for the G-spot as we discussed in earlier chapters. Stimulating the G-spot will give her a deeper orgasm and also rest her clitoris so it can be easily stimulated again during the third mixed orgasm. Once you start stimulating the G-spot, the second orgasm will
come much faster than the first one did. This second orgasm is the one that is going to make her toes curl a little more.

The third orgasm will be achieved by stimulating both the clitoris and the G-spot. The clitoris will be rested and ready for easy stimulation and your stimulation of the G-spot will continue simultaneously. If she is a squirter; you will know by the end of the third orgasm.

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